Best birthday ever!
Hello my sexy readers, It's finally here! The long awaited tale of what happened at my sexy birthday party. I can tell you it was a lot...
Seeing 2023 in with a bang (or 2)
Dear sexy readers, I hope you all had a fabulous start to the New Year and that 2023 will be gentle on you after the years we have had...
A fabulous Christmas party.
Hello my sexy readers, I'm a little bit behind with my blog again, work, both my real job and my OF work have been taking up a lot of...
An only slightly naughty trip to PDI.
Hi my sexy readers, It has been far too long since I last wrote. So much has happened that it is almost impossible to catch up with, so I...
It's been a while, time for a catch up.
Hey everyone, Gosh, it really has been a while since I last wrote a blog post. I suppose there are a multitude or reasons behind this:...
Back to Gran Canaria - A not so very swingy swinging holiday.
Hello my sexy readers, I believe you are all eagerly awaiting the full story of our holiday to Playa del Ingles in Gran Canaria. We...
The Bedhoppers Social 2.0
Hey sexy readers, It has been a little while since I last posted, mostly because Covid kept me house bound for pretty much a whole month!...
A Sexy New Year's Eve Story!
Hey sexy readers, First and foremost I want to wish you a Happy New Year, I hope that 2022 will bring everyone all the fun and sexy times...
2021, what a great year!
Hey sexy readers, Yes, yes, I'm fully aware that this is a very controversial title, but I genuinely mean this. Our lifestyle year has...
A Tale of Friendship and Patience
Hey my sexy readers, Today's story will be a little bit different from my recent posts. I started this blog, both as a diary of our sexy...
Fun in Tenerife - part 2
Hey sexy readers, Welcome back and I hope you have had a change to read the first part of the story about the fun we had on our holiday...
Fun in Tenerife - part 1
Hey sexy readers, It's been a busy time here in the Our Secret Life house. And in a good way! We have finally had the opportunity to...
Mrs L the Unicorn
Hey sexy readers, If you follow me on Twitter, you will know that I recently went on a BIG ADVENTURE. If you don't follow me on Twitter,...
Kink, rope and discovering new things
Hi sexy readers, This last weekend I had the most intense and amazing experience that I wanted to share with you. It is somewhat...
Our Bedhoppers Social Adventure
Hello my sexy readers! Get comfy and grab yourself a drink. Today's post is going to be a looong one. It's amazing how much action can be...
You win some, you lose some.
Last Saturday, we decided to go and watch the England - Ukraine game in our local club. We thought it would be more fun than at home and...
The date I never thought would happen.
Hello my sexy readers, How times have changed: I already have another post about yet another adventure! Life really has been exciting...
Easing back into into the lifestyle
England, April 12 2021: pubs reopen for outdoor entertainment, more and more people are vaccinated against covid, the roadmap to getting...
Musings on female masturbation and orgasms.
I was listening to the Sexpots podcast last week and the guest of the week talked about the stigma that is often still surrounding female...






















